By adapting our communication to meet the needs and communication styles of those we know, we can enter more fully into their world.
Zechariah is a New Testament character, the husband of Elizabeth and the father of John the Baptist.
In Luke 1:5-25 we learn about Zechariah and the amazing encounter that he had with the angel Gabriel. Gabriel told Zechariah that he and his wife would have a son, who would be sent by God to prepare the way for the Messiah, Jesus.
Gabriel told Zechariah that his son would have the same spirit and power as Elijah, one of the great Old Testament characters; Gabriel also told Zechariah that he should name his son John.
Zechariah, despite being visited by an angel, doubted what he had been told, and so Gabriel told him that because of this doubt Zechariah would not be able to speak until his son was born.
So, John became unable to speak, therefore unable to communicate through speech. What did he do? And what does his story teach us about people who cannot communicate by speech, or choose not to, today?
No! After he had lost his ability to speak, verse 23 tells us that ‘When his time of service was over, he returned home.’ He carried on working, serving the people, after his encounter with Gabriel and the temporary loss of his ability to communicate by speech.
There is no reason why people who either cannot speak, or choose not to speak, should not be able to serve in our churches, for example.
As we will discover, Zechariah found alternative ways to communicate that allowed him to continue with his life for the months of Elizabeth’s pregnancy.
Yes! We see examples of Zechariah adapting to use other forms of communication in the account in Luke 1:
Children, young people, or adults, who cannot speak (for a range of reasons) or choose not to speak (which can be linked to anxiety, for example) will use a variety of ways to communicate.
Just as the people in Zechariah’s time, and especially Elizabeth, needed to understand these different communication methods and how Zechariah used them, so we should ensure that we seek to understand all of the communication cues that children, young people, or adults who don’t speak might be sharing with us:
There are lots of ways that people of any age who cannot, or choose not to, speak can and do use to communicate. Non-speaking also does not automatically mean, for example:
Zechariah’s family and friends learned how to understand his different forms of communication during the months when he couldn’t speak.
We can do the same for the children, young people, or adults that we are journeying with.
By adapting our communication to meet the needs and communication styles of those we know, we can enter more fully into their world, understanding them and what they are sharing with us.
And you never know… just like Zechariah, they may well have some really important things to tell us!
Mark Arnold, Director of Additional Needs Ministry at Urban Saints. Arnold blogs at The Additional Needs Blogfather. This article was re-published with permission.
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